Wedding
Service
Reverend Corey “Kamuela” Rodrigues
~Opening with the Blowing of the Pu
Followed by Hawaiian chant~
~Lei Exchange~
Groom & Bride,
for our people here in Hawaii the flower lei is a symbol of things that are
fragile and temporal. A flower lei will only last for a day or two and then it is gone. Our lives
are like the flower leis, within a span of eternity we’re only here for a brief
moment. Live with tender consideration for each other. Love one another and
your marriage will last. May the lei you now offer to each other be recognized
of your love for each other.
~Declaration~
We are here to celebrate your marriage.
You have chosen this day to affirm your love for each other with spoken words,
with prayer and with the sharing of symbols.
Marriage is a commitment to life… to the
best that two people can find and bring out of each other. It offers
opportunities for sharing and growth; no other human relationship can equal, a
physical and emotional joining that is promised for a lifetime.
Within the circle of it’s love, marriage
encompasses all of life’s most important relationship’s. A wife and a husband
are each other’s best friend, confidant, lover, teacher and listener. There may
come times when one partner is heartbroken or ailing; the love of the other
brings healing and steadfastness of a sturdy foundation that allows the
marriage covenant to be established.
Marriage deepens and enriches every
facet of life. Happiness is fuller; memories are fresher; commitment is
stronger.
Marriage understands and forgives the
mistakes life is unable to avoid,
and yet, it encourages and nurtures new
life, new experiences and new ways of expressing love through the seasons of
life.
When two people pledge to love and care
for each other, in marriage; they seem to create a spirit unique unto
themselves, which binds them closer than any spoken or written word. Marriage
is a promise, a potential, made in the hearts of two people who love each
other, and this will take a lifetime to fulfill.
~To be United~
There was a seeking of the lost, now it
is found. A mate is found. One to share the chills of winter. Love has made a
plea that you two become united. Here in beautiful_____ is a perch, a perch in
heaven. You two are now to become one, for the day is here at last. You are to
be wedded and the prayer has gone it’s way.
~The Aloha Spirit~
We gather today in the spirit of love,
the spirit we know intimately in these islands as the “Spirit of Aloha”. It is
the spirit that brought you two together, Groom &
Bride and everyone who is to rejoice and celebrate this new and exciting
moment in your life’s journey. We embrace now this moment to the wonder of
creation surrounding us.
**Hawaiian Chant “Mapu Ka Hanu “Light of
the union for two”
~Passage Reading~ (if pertinent)
This day we meet by the flowing waters
as the two of you become one. By the border of this constant and unlimited
force and like theses waters, may your love be limitlessly flowing and ever
changing. May your love touch and enrich all those whom you come in contact,
just like these waters touching and nourishing the many shores of the earth.
~Exchange of Vows~
Groom: Marriage
in our society has come to mean that a man will love, respect and cherish his
wife. That he will make his wife the closest companion in his life. That he
will reserve this intimate association for her and her alone. That he will give
his strength and wisdom to the support and comfort of his wife. Do you commit
yourself to Bride wholeheartedly
in this way? Groom responds I do
Bride: It is our belief that marriage will involve a woman in the same
kind of commitment. A commitment of companionship, respect and love. A
commitment of mutual support in the establishment of caring for your home where
love will dwell infinitely. A commitment which makes it plain that while you
have other friends and associates, Groom will be your closest associate. Do you commit yourself to Groom wholeheartedly in this way?
Bride responds I do
Marriage is a covenant and
it is a commitment that you make with each other as individuals. It is a
commitment that you make with your families and friends. So, Groom & Bride,
I know you understand that you are making one of the most important decisions
you will ever make in your life. It is a commitment which will not only make
you husband and wife, but, life long partners. There will be times when you may
wonder how love can endure. Through these times let your love for each other
flow, and in that love, you will find strength. Remember the simplicity of this
day, the beauty of Maui here in ______, and those of us who have gathered here
to be with you.
Now, Groom & Bride,
I ask you both to affirm your willingness to enter this covenant of marriage.
Groom, do you wish for Bride to be your lawful wedded wife? Groom responds I do
Bride, do you wish for Groom to be your lawful wedded husband? Bride responds I do
**Hawaiian Wedding song
& Hula (if applicable)**
~Exchange of Rings~
Groom & Bride, though small in size, these rings are very large in significance
and made of precious metal. As you wear these rings, whether together or apart
for a moment, may they be constant reminder of these glad promises you are
making today.
Groom & Bride, as you place this ring on Bride’s & Groom’s finger,
please repeat after me. With this ring I promise to grow with you, to build our
love, and to speak openly. To love and cherish you for all the days ahead from
this day forward.
“A Ka Pu’uwai
” By: Rev.
Kamuela & Mahailani Rodrigues (if applicable)
“E Hoapili Kaua A Ka Pu’uwai
Mai Loko Mai E Wahi Kapu
Ke Po’o Nui O Ka Haku
Me Ke Aloha Nui Waiola
Kulike Ke Kukuna O Ka La
Maliu Mai Ke Kaukeha A Holo
Wai
E Ko Makua Lani Ho’o La’I
La’I Me Ka Pomaika’I Ke Ia Male’ana
E Like Ke Kukuona O Ka La Me
Ka Pau’ole
E Ho’opomaika’I E Oe Ame Kau
Hiwa One
E Ala E Ho’oulu , Amene”
~Closing Marriage Creed~
Be a friend and partner,
friendship can be a peaceful island separate and apart in a world of turmoil
and strife. Reflect upon the tranquility of the many future years you can share
as true friends. Be open to each other as the budding rose opens to reveal it’s
fragrance and beauty.
Give each other approval,
compliments, encouragement, nurturing and confidence. Love one another. Love is
your river, your eternal source of recreating your selves. Above all else, Groom & Bride,
love one another.
~Pronouncement of Marriage~
With the blessing of
everyone who is present here today and under the authority vested in me by the
state of Hawaii, I now pronounce you both husband and wife. HONI KA WAHA! Groom you may kiss your bride,
sir.
Whom god has joined
together, let no man put asunder…..
~Blowing of the Conch ~
ALOHA E!!! ALOHA MAI!!!
ALOHA AKU!!!
updated 09/29/2010